There was a comedian on the cruise who was kind of funny, but he made a great point:

He prefaced it by saying that A.D. D. is Attention Deficit Disorder, etc. Then, he said, “But what does A.D.D. really mean?”

(parents) “Ain’t Doin’ Didly!”

I agree! I won’t get on my soap box about that right now though:-) Just find this to be true in many cases.